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Top, bottom, versatile – What are you? By Jorge Diaz, MSW Jorge-armando@hotmail.com Top, bottom or versatile – what are you? Who really cares? Why does the role we play in the bedroom define who we are? Let’s talk about sex and sexual roles with no shame or restrictions. Why are we conflicted or shamed by the role we play in the bedroom? It’s interesting to hear Latino men talk about sex in a discrete yet shameful tone. Let’s start with our “bottoms.” What defines him? Must he be feminine, smooth and submissive? Does being a bottom mean you’re submissive? If…

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Activo, Pasivo, Versátil – ¿Cuál eres? Por: Jorge Díaz, MSW Jorge-armando@hotmail.com Activo, pasivo, o versátil – ¿cuál eres? ¿realmente importa? ¿por qué permitimos que el rol sexual que tomamos en la intimidad defina quienes somos? ¿por qué a muchos de nosotros nos da vergüenza el rol que tomamos en la intimidad? Es interesante escuchar a hombres latinos hablar del sexo con vergüenza y estigma. Empecemos con los chicos “pasivos.” ¿Qué define a un pasivo? ¿tiene que ser sumiso, femenino y lampiño? ¿ser pasivo significa que somos sumisos? Para ese hombre “activo masculino” que desea ser “pasivo” pero no puede por…

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A father’s love – a father’s rejection. By: Jorge Diaz, MSW Clinical Social Worker Jorge-armando@hotmail.com The month of June has arrived, let the pride festivals and summer begin. It’s also the month we celebrate Father’s day. Many of us either celebrate with our father or simply live through this Sunday like any other day. As a gay man, I learned that the most sacred and valuable relationship to me is the relationship with my father. The man that will never hurt me, lie to me, or cheat on me and certainly will always love and accept me regardless of how…

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