By: Jerry P. Abraham, MD MPH CMQ
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Drugs and Alcohol are a big problem for many people, but can be especially challenging for individuals within our queer Latin@ communities. There are many reasons that make addiction and alcoholism a bigger issue for us. Let’s take a closer look at why this happens to us and what we can do it about it.
Why Do Gay Latino Men Use Substances?
Many gay Latino men turn to alcohol or drugs for different reasons. Life can be stressful, especially when facing problems like discrimination, rejection, or feeling alone. Sometimes, using alcohol or drugs feels like a way to escape pain or feel more comfortable.
1. Feeling Rejected: Some gay Latino men feel rejected by their families, friends, or even their communities. This rejection hurts, and using alcohol or drugs might seem like a way to forget that pain for a little while.
2. Dealing with Discrimination: Gay Latino men often face discrimination for being gay and Latino. This double pressure can be hard to handle, leading some to use substances to cope with stress, sadness, or anger.
3. Wanting to Fit In: Many social events, like parties or clubs, involve drinking or using drugs. To feel accepted, some gay Latino men may join in, even if they don’t really want to. This can lead to bad habits over time.
The Dangers of Substance Use
Using alcohol or drugs might feel good at first, but it can quickly turn into a problem. Here are some of the dangers:
1. Health Problems: Drinking too much alcohol can damage your liver, heart, and brain. Drugs like methamphetamine, cocaine, or marijuana can hurt your lungs, heart, and mental health. Over time, substance use and alcohol can lead to serious health issues.
2. Risky Behavior: When people are drunk or high, they might make bad choices, like having unprotected sex or getting into dangerous situations. This can lead to other problems, like sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or injuries.
3. Addiction: It’s easy to become addicted to alcohol or drugs. Addiction means you feel like you need the substance to feel normal. It can be very hard to quit, even when you want to.
Breaking the Cycle: How to Get Help
If you or someone you know is struggling with substance use, there’s hope. You don’t have to face this alone. Here are some steps to take:
1. Reach Out: Talk to someone you trust, like a friend, family member, or healthcare professional. It can be scary to ask for help, but it’s the first step to feeling better.
2. Find Support Groups: There are groups for gay Latino men who are dealing with substance use. In these groups, people share their experiences, offer support, and help each other stay on track.
3. Seek Professional Help: Doctors, counselors, and addiction specialists can offer treatments like therapy, medication, or rehab programs. These professionals understand what you’re going through and can guide you toward recovery.
You Are Not Alone
Remember, it’s okay to ask for help. Many gay Latino men face these challenges, and it’s not your fault. There’s strength in reaching out and finding support. By taking small steps, you can begin to build a healthier, happier life.
You deserve to feel proud, strong, and healthy. Let’s start the journey together. If you or someone you know needs help, reach out today. There’s always hope, and you don’t have to go through this alone.
And Remember: You can visit DR. ABRAHAM & the whole JWCH-WESLEY STREET MEDICINE TEAM at CLUB TEMPO every Sunday night! Come out and get all your LGBTQIA+ questions and medical needs met – including your questions and/or concerns about substance use, addiction, and alcoholism.